"Hey Girl" Blog

From Breakup to Makeup

You lost count on how many times you two have broken up. How many times you’ve clowned other women, and him.

Crying has become the norm for you! And you’ve mastered not showing emotions in front of people, especially when it comes to him. You’ve put up with a lot, he’s put you through a lot .

For a moment your done. Suddenly you find yourself going back. Believing, the makeup is better than the breakup. Until the breakup happens again.

Sis! YOU gotta stop selling yourself short for a moment of pleasure and memories full of pain.

Love…. its time for you to break up to makeup with yourself.

Taking time to chose you. To learn your worth. It time to makeup for all the energy you lost placing it in empty places. Grab the lesson from it and learn. Some leave one to go to another to only repeat what they went through from the last. You have to make time to heal

Your to precious to God to be undervaluing your heart.

You gotta learn to protect your heart at all times and your mental. Some of these breakups have done a number on self esteems. Killed a lot of drives on life. Pulled a lot of you away from positive relationships. Relationships that only God can restore.

I wanna encourage you, we’ve all been down this road before. Some was taught what to do and how to not repeat the same mistake. And some haven’t been taught. They just been winging it.

Below are a few steps that i pray will be of help on the journey to heal and not repeat.

• Be Real with yourself and God about where you are mentally and emotionally.

2. Take it to him in prayer ( have a conversation with God)

Matthew 11:28 (NLT version)

THEN JESUS SAID,”COME TO ME ALL YOU WHO ARE WEARY AND CARRY HEAVY BURDENS AND I WILL GIVE YOU REST. (29) TAKE MY YOKE UPON YOU.LET ME TEACH YOU, BECAUSE I AM HUMBLE AND GENTLE AT HEART, AND YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS.

3. Pray that God places someone mature in Christ in your life. That will help build up you while gaining a relationship with God.

4. seek out professional, licensed help from a therapist .

5. Don’t give up on you. trust the process!